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One of the biggest problems in relationships today isn’t the way couples treat one another. It isn’t affairs or infidelity. It’s time. We lead busier lives than ever before. Even when we’re in the same room we’re spending time doing other things. We bring work home into our living rooms. We’re text messaging, Facebooking (when did that become a verb?), and playing video games during the precious moments we can grab together. We’re driving kids from soccer practice to piano lessons and play dates in between. But, we’re devoting very little one on one time to one another without any of these other distractions.

One cell phone company had a commercial a few years ago that about sums it up. A man was sitting in bed surfing the net on his phone while his wife comes into the room wearing a sexy little number. He didn’t even glance up from his phone to notice. The catch phrase of the commercial was ‘Really?’

Really. That’s about what’s it’s coming to in modern marriages and adult relationships. We’re losing glue that binds us together because there are just too many distractions. Even the noble distractions such as work and making a good life for our families are getting in the way of maintaining and growing the most important relationship we’ll have in our lives.

By the end of the day we fall into bed exhausted and may find the energy to ask one another to turn off the lights. Then morning comes and it’s off to the races. How do we find time for each other when we barely have time for everything we need to do in a day?

Unplug at a Certain Time Each Day

Set a ‘cutoff’ time for all tech. Computers, mobile phones, iPads, iPods, televisions, and video games. Put them away for the day and have a real conversation together. Find out what’s going on in each other’s lives and rediscover the spark of passion that you never thought would fade when you first met.

Believe me, it hasn’t faded. It’s just been buried beneath mountains of stuff you’re doing in a day. Your marriage or relationship needs to become a priority. That’s not going to happen as long as you’re distracted by every shiny new piece of tech that comes along 24-7.

Get a Hobby Together

Doing things together, as a couple, is a great way to really spend some serious quality time together. I know many couples who bought sail boats for that very reason. It’s great to go out sailing together. It’s an investment that you’ll want to get your money’s worth out of so you’ll make time to do it and it’s fairly close quarters so it’s difficult to ignore one another.

There are other hobbies you might want to consider though that will allow you to spend quality time together: golf, ballroom dancing, and cooking classes are all great ideas to consider.

You don’t have to look far for ways to make time for each other. Sometimes though you don’t even know the need exists until it’s too late and the relationship has ended. These are the times when you’re going to need to do a little more than spend time together if you want to get your ex back. Watch the FREE video in the link to learn what you need to do to really get your ex’s attention so you can get back together in order to practice these new tips for making time for one another.

If you both commit to making time for each other then it will be easier than you think to get your ex back after a breakup. In fact, lack of time spent together is a leading cause of women feeling unappreciated and men feeling disrespected in relationships. It’s hard to ‘show the love’ if you’re never in the same room together. It’s even worse when you’re in the same room but spending time with everyone else in the world, via technology, other than the person sitting right across the room. You need to figure out how to make time for each other if you want to have any hope at all of saving your relationship after a breakup.

Breaking up is hard to do. It’s even harder when you’re the one who has been dumped. But that doesn’t mean the relationship is over. The good news for you is that history is on your side. You have a history of happy memories with your ex. You can capitalize on that history. Of course, the first step is to figure out how to make time for you to spend together. This is important time you need to keep things happy and healthy between the two of you when you do get back together with your ex.

Plan Time Together

In the beginning you might need to pencil the time in on your busy calendars. As you grow more accustomed to spending this time together you’ll find that you’re planning for it automatically without the need to ‘pencil it in’. It doesn’t hurt to schedule time to work on your relationship. In fact, it shows that you’re both committed to the outcome and dedicated to making it work.

Planning time together also lets the world know that you’re getting your priorities right and that there are going to be times when you’re not available. The more accustomed they become to this fact the fewer instances you’ll have of interruptions during this important time for the two of you.

Seize Opportunities as they Arise

Every once in a while, the timing works out right for the two of you to have a little private time together. Don’t waste that time. Take advantage of them and do something together instead of doing your own thing.

Part of the challenge of marriage and other relationships is finding the right balance of time to define and build the relationship with all the other demands there are on your time. This is a perfect opportunity to build your relationship and connect with your partner. Use it wisely.

Create Opportunities whenever Possible

A weekly date night is a great way to create opportunities to spend time together – especially if you don’t limit that time to going to see a movie where you can’t really talk. You need to be able to talk and flirt a little in order to make the time truly valuable for the two of you. You don’t have to rule out movies completely just make sure you do dinner, coffee, or dessert in addition to the movie so you have time to enjoy each other’s company.

Another great way to create opportunity is to notice when one child is going to be away for the evening and try to make plans for the other child/children to be away as well.

The more time you make for each other and devote too each other the happier and healthier your marriage is likely to be. Just remember it’s not always the number of minutes you have together but how you use them that really matter. Watch this FREE video designed to help you, with step by step instructions on how to get your ex back so you can start enjoying all this extra time together.

The more chaotic your world is, the harder it can be for you to focus on things that are important to you and your family.? This happens a lot in larger cities where there are so many things to see that your mind can’t focus on one sight. It can also happen in homes and office spaces that are filled with clutter and other distractions. It’s very bad for productivity.

Eliminating the clutter in your line of sight can help you become more productive, creative, and effective in your business and personal life. Here are a few things you can do to cut down on the clutter in your line of sight.

Clear off all Horizontal Surfaces

Start with one room and then move on to others. The first step though is to clear off all the horizontal surfaces (this includes the floor) of everything but furniture. Once you have a Clean slate to work with you can begin sorting through drawers and/or cabinets to find out what can be eliminated and how they may be better organized.

Use Ziploc bags and small Ziploc or other plastic containers for sorting and storing small objects that are kept in these drawers and/or cabinets. Label things so that you can easily tell what is in the containers and don’t have to waste a lot of time sorting through them all to find the one you’re looking for.

Eliminate as many surface items as possible with the exception of a few decorative items you feel add value, warmth, or atmosphere to the room. Everything else that isn’t necessary is wise to get rid of so that you aren’t looking at them all the time. Justify everything you place on a horizontal surface in the room and be prepared to defend it if you want to keep it. The goal is to eliminate the surface clutter and every item can become clutter if it isn’t kept neat and tidy.

Change Your Vantage Point

Another thing you can do to make a room look and feel less visually cluttered is to change your vantage point. For instance, your home office may be better served if you turn your desk to face a wall or a window (unless, of course, you’ll be distracted by the view). In the living room you may find that you’re less distracted and/or overwhelmed by having only a television on the wall your sofa faces and using other walls for photographs and bric-a-brac.

By changing what you’re looking at it can make a huge difference in how you see the things in the world and rooms around you. Clear out the visual clutter and see how quickly calming the effect can be.

Relationships can also be greatly impacted by the view and your resulting frame of mind. If you’re constantly stressed your relationship can pay a heavy price. Watch this FREE video today to see how a few simple steps can not only help you get your ex back, but also turn your relationships around once and for all.

You need to figure out how to make your man feel like he’s the King of your world if you want to make your relationship last. The problem is, you don’t always know what it takes to make him feel like he’s number one in your book. So, what can you do to give him all the confidence in the world about his status in your esteem?

1) Flatter him. He needs to be flattered by you. You don’t have to go overboard with the flattery to the point of comical proportions. But you do need to feed his ego if you want to keep him happy and eliminate any concerns he may have of where your mind and your heart truly are.
2) Flirt with him. How long has it been since you’ve shamelessly flirted with your fellow? He LOVES is when you do. Women often flirt in a huge way until they feel comfortable and confident in the relationship. Then the flirting stops. But his need for it and the confidence it builds in him doesn’t stop. If you want to make him feel like he’s the only one for you, you’re going to have to engage in a little light banter as often as possible to keep the juices, and his confidence, flowing.
3) Use the power of touch. Men and women have different feelings out the power of touch in relationships. Men use touch extremely emotionally while women have a tendency to internalize emotions. Men use the power of touch to show possession (especially in a crowd where other men are present), to show affection, and to show love. Touch is vital for men to show love and to FEEL LOVED by you. Touch him often and he’ll feel much more comfortable in the knowledge that you do love him.
4) Display loyalty. Men prize loyalty above almost everything else. Disloyalty will win you no favor in his eyes. In fact, it will hurt him on a very deep level. Always be loyal to him – whether he’s around or not and it will leave him confident in your feelings for him and his standing in your eyes.
5) Show him respect. Respect means different things to different people. For the average man, it means that you admire him. Let him know that you admire him and tell him the many reasons why. You don’t have to list them out in one setting. Just comment on something he says that shows integrity. Tell him that’s one of the many reasons you love and ADMIRE or RESPECT him so much. It’s a small statement that carries a lot of weight with your guy.

Unfortunately, many women in your situation wait until it’s just a little too late to understand the need to do these things. If he’s already walked out though all hope is not lost. You can still use these techniques to make your relationship stronger. The hard part is getting him back to begin with.

Make sure you take the time out of your busy schedule to watch this FREE video that explains the perfect opening move designed to help you get your ex back. It’s the same technique that has helped more than 50,000 people in 77 countries around the world get back together. Then apply the tactics above to keep him there once you do.